Benjamin Karney: In non-affluent partners a€“ in, in lovers that may be poor or disadvantaged, that expectation is true. It’s not possible to believe that people that cannot change would, don’t alter because they do not wish to transform. Couples that don’t posses budget will not be in a position to change.
Therefore, suppose I’m a wife and I’m asking my companion hey, you are sure that you will want to earn more income. You should get a better job. You will want to work harder because of this parents.